#4: Transmute Insults into Laughter, Free Yourself from Impossible Desires, and Stoic Morning Routines
And how to get the most from the Stoic books we read
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🛡️ The Stoic Insult Roadmap: Never Be Socially Harmed Again: Learn why insults hurt, and the 5 meta frames the Stoics used to avoid this pain. Listen here.
🧁 2 Types of Desires That Always Cause Disappointment: Epictetus understood that unmet desires are the cause of much suffering. In this episode, I discuss “impossible” desires and “slave” desires, as two important types of desires that we must learn to avoid. Listen here.
☕️ Stoic Micro Morning Routines: The Micro Morning Meditations, a Monday-Friday email offering manageable Stoic morning routines created by Allan from WhatIsStoicism.com. This is a fantastic way to practice Stoicism in a low-effort way each day. Learn more here.
📚 How to Get More From the Books We Read
Reading presents a huge paradox. On the one hand, books are one of the most transformational technologies we have. They have changed my life in so many ways. On the other hand, we forget a lot of what we read and apply less than we remember.
In this talk with neuro-resilience and learning coach Justin Noppé, we go over some of the best mindsets we can use to approach reading. These tips will come in useful when reading classic Stoic texts.
🧰 Featured Idea: “Stay on the Path, See What Happens.”
If you stick to your principles:
the very same people that once made fun of you will eventually come to respect and admire you and ask you how you become such a wise person.
If you do not stick to your principles:
Those people who tempted you to leave the Stoic path will just mock you with twice the ferocity.
Read the full article on this topic here.
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